Question - Joan in Japan Asks...
Hi Jay,
I saw "The Missing" last
night and found it powerful and disturbing.
Your performance was great. I was
disturbed because I don't think I've
ever found myself wishing so intensely
for someone to be killed during a
movie (el brujo). I'd be very interested
to know your view on what his powers
represented - what is someone tapping
into when they become so destructive?
I believe that such "evil"
exists within all of us and that we
have to move strongly and consciously
toward the good in every moment...but
to find myself wishing for someone
to die is also surely destructive
of life in a very fundamental way....hmmmmm
And one more question: for you, does art connect with suffering, or beauty or both??
Here are some quotes from my favourite
Buddhist writer, Daisaku Ikeda.
"Often life is painful. It has
thorns, like the stem of a rose. Culture
and art are the roses that bloom on
that stem. It may seem that the world
often treats us as parts in a machine,
and we need something to help us restore
our humanity. Each of us has feelings
that have been suppressed and have
built up inside: a voiceless cry in
the depths of our souls. Art gives
those feelings voice and form; it
liberates our own humanity. It is
the emotion, the pleasure of expressing
our inner life exactly as it is."
....and
...
"Creativity means to push open
the heavy, groaning doorway to life.
This is not an easy struggle. Indeed
it may be the most difficult task
in the world, a matter of sweat and
tears. For opening the door to your
own life may be as difficult as opening
the door to the mysteries of the universe."
Thank you for being an inspiration and true to yourself.
love from Joan
in Tokyo!
Answer - Jay writes...
kee nee cho ah Joan, Eric Schweig
who portrayed the Witch in "The
Missing" was the dark product
of the system in the late 1880's,
It was the end of the Indian Wars,
most Tribes had already surrendered
and were sent to the Reservations...
re-located all over the USA, in lands
where nothing grew, enduring extreme
weather conditions and no food. The
few free roaming Apaches were a dying
breed. The United States Indian Scots
were hated by both sides as they betrayed
their own people only to be betrayed
by the very Masters they served, After
helping the Cavalry hunt down the
Indians most of them were sent to
the Rez along side the Indian captives.
Keeping that in mind one can imagine
why the Witch in "The Missing"
was so bitter and evil. The Book which
the Movie was based on was called
"The Last Ride" and I think
it describes what Eric and his gang
of Indian Scots were doing best of
all. One last ride through the Country
they used to roam as freely as the
wind, adding salt to the wound by
kidnapping the young women to sell
in Mexico, defying the authorities
of the time and asking the Cavalry
to come and get them if they can.
As far as the Magical Powers The Witch
had there are many stories of Shamans
with SuperNatrual powers which The
Apaches believed were given during
a Vision Quest as a gift from "Usen"
the one God.
To Understand your human nature is
the first step in trying to control
the forces that dwell within all of
us, just as you are capable of Godly
acts so you must know that the dark
side is as alive within, and it is
this eternal struggle that moves us
in our daily life. To wish someone
harm who is evil by nature is a natural
reaction, what you do with that thought
is the real challenge? I believe all
great artist harbor great pain and
sorrow somewhere deep in their souls
and it is this pain that feeds them
and motivates them to create works
of art and the beauty they create
heals them one painting or one sculpture
at a time. I like the Zen teachings...
Thank you
Question - Tiana Asks...
First of all let me express my greatest
admiration for your devotion towards
your admirers. Just making time to
replay to any of our questions suggests
that among your natural talent and
artistic flare you have a rarely gained
talent of honest communication and
care toward others. I am originally
from East Europe currently residing
in UK with History of Art degree under
my belt and two great passions in
my life: Film and History and Life
of Native Nations in America. I have
been nourishing both interests for
some years now and trying to pass
my knowledge to others around me as
much as I can. eeeeeeeeeegh all this
sounds pretty geeky but hey! I found
out about your involvement in Native
Elder Program therefore hence me posting
a message. I would love to be involved
in helping and supporting children
or native elders in USA but I always
felt by not being USA citizen would
be little bit odd or anxious to even
offer. I do not want to offend
anybody therefore I am only seeking
your advise in this matter. It would
be great to contribute in any way
possible and maybe that way say thank
you for all the knowledge and wisdom
gained.
Love Tiana.
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hello Tiana and thank you for your kind words. I am a story teller and I do it because it is my passion. If you can reach out to people who are less fortunate than you are, it really does not matter where you come from as all boarders are man made. If you look at Earth from Space you will see one beautiful blue Planet and the land you see has no walls, no boarders or boundaries. We are one race and we are more alike than we like to admit, but we are. There is more Genetic variation among a group of Chimpanzees living in the wild than there is in the entire human race!!! If you have the same blood type as I you can donate your organs to me even though we are of different race or sex, so how important is the race card? If your spirit wants to reach across the Atlantic to help a Native Elder then let it do so and worry not my friend for you are doing what the Great Mystery had intended for you and your spirit will be enriched by it. You can reach the Adopt an Elder program by going to my link page on my site. Thank you.
Question - Courtney Writes:
Jay...
I don't know if you heard, but Congress is supposed talk about passing a bill to apologize to Native Americans about past wrongdoings. What do you think about this? Great? Too little, too late?
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Courtney, great question. I remember
in the 2000 Sidney Olympics the Australian
athletes wore shirts that simply read
"Sorry." They were referring
to the treatment of the Aboriginal
people of their land. I was touched
by this as I'm sure the world was.
I feel our nation has had a deep wound
on it's side for over 400 years and
each generation has put a band aid
on it and passed it on, hoping someone
else would deal with it. But before
healing can occur one must first acknowledge
the wrong done. In the 1500s there
was an estimated 20 million indigenous
people living in America's, by the
1890s there was less than 250,000
left! They did not all pack up and
go to Oklahoma. I know this sound
harsh but there has been an American
Holocaust that no one seems to acknowledge.
In fact our government was the fist
nation to use biological weapons on
it's own people. Many tribes were
wiped out without a single bullet
being fired. Diseased blankets did
a faster job. I could go on but it's
no good to point fingers at anyone
now. To acknowledge the fact that
the American Indians gave up their
way of life for the rest of us to
live the way we do now and the prosperity
that we have come to take for granted
is the first step to start the healing
that must occur for our Nation to
evolve to the next level. If you see
yourself as an American then you must
learn the Spirit and the wisdom that
the Indian elders have left us and
never before has it been more necessary
to walk the Spirit path and just see
one Nation with no colors and no divisions.
I wish all of you a happy holidays.
Enjoy the Magic the exists among your
families.
Jay.
Question - Lurker 007 Asks...
Hey Jay, I am your ever loving Lurker 007. I have a pretty simple question for you. At least simple for me to ask maybe not so simple for you to answer.
I have noticed that everybody talks about how gorgeous and fine you are. What I wanna know is does this ever bother you? I mean I realize that complements are nice but, if they are use too much they can cause damage.
People may not see you for you and you can become nothing more than a pretty face.
My other question is people always
talk about what a good spirit you
have and what it would be like if
they met you. Does this put any kind
of pressure on you to act a certain
way when you meet people? I mean are
you ever afraid that people won't
except you for who you are?
Oops guess I had more than one question.
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hello 007, a psychological question...?
Hmmmm from someone who rather remain
in the shadows... How intriguing...
I always believed it's not what people
say is why they said it ... it's not
what people do, is why they do it?
If you apply that in your life you
find the deeper meanings. There is
a Jay that exists in everyone's mind
here on this forum, now they may be
similar but I guarantee that no two
mental images are the same. Then there
is the Jay I see which could yet be
someone else. The compliments are
sweet gesture from the fans but ultimately
they do not change the mental image
I have of myself. I have my mixed
background to thank for the way I
look but beauty can be a gift or a
curse if one does not handle it correctly.
Every one of us is being judged at
all times and I do agree to some extend
Celebes must live up to the expectation
of their public but I do not go out
of my way to modify my behavior. I
was not born perfect I don't believe
anyone is but part of purpose in the
journey of life is to refine the things
that we are passionate about and hope
to reach our destination having mastered
some of them.
Question - Shygirl Asks...
Hi Jay, This is my first time posting a question. I usually have alot to ask but don't because I am too shy and I figure everbody else seems to ask all the good questions. So today I am being brave. I have three ?'s 4u.
My fist question is about that scene in the movie cold mountain where you all got blown up. Did they really blow up something in your faces or was it done mostly by computer?
My second ? is I know that someone
already asked about love scenes but
I was wondering what kind of preparation
does an actor do before a kissing
scene. Do you go and brush your teeth
or are you sucking on an altoid the
whole time?
My third question is which do you
prefer boxers or briefs? Good God
please do not say commando lol. I
just needed to type something to bring
the shygirl in me out of my shell.
Thanks for answering my ?'s and if you don't answer them than at least I got my courage today just like the cowardly Lion.
Om Shanti (Peace be with you)
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Shygirl, Hope you are well. The explosion scene in Cold Mountain was an epic endeavor for the film Makers. Many weeks of preparation was needed to coordinate the battle of Petersburg which began with 4 tons of dynamite exploding that was tunneled beneath the confederacy trenches and it was the largest explosion of it's kind at that time frame in history "1864." To recreate this Anthony Minghella used 80 sticks of dynamite and actually blew up a secondary site that was filmed live with over a thousand soldiers lying near by. Afterwards Jude and I had to do the close ups. We were attached to a contraption that is know as Jerk back and it is a harness worn beneath our uniform and a cable is attached to our back and at the right time we are hurled up and back at high speeds and you really have to relax and go with it or you will hurt yourself. It really is a lot of fun once you get the hang of it almost like a wild ride, but it is a blind landing and they place mats to break our fall. At the same time they blow junk and dust in our faces and a stunt man had to coordinate a flying jump in between us. This was not an easy thing to nail and we were in wool suits and the temperatures at the bottom of the trench was 114 degrees! And you thought it was easy being an actor Ha? LOL. For a love scene you do exactly what you would do before a date And finally as a solider I always go commando!
Question - Elijah asks...
Do you always get the parts for every movie you try out for? Because I always wanted to be an actor. So I tryed out for a play called The Best chrismas Pagent Ever and i made it. Then I tryed out for a nother play called to kill a moking bird. and didn't get the part. how do you handle being turned down? and would you incourage me to try out for more plays and belive that I can become a good acter just like you are. Thank you, from Elijah
(Hello there Jay, these questions are hand typed by my 10 year old son. He has read some of your posts and has chosen you for his positive role model. Thank you so much for responding to him. Perhaps if he hears encouragement from not only an actor, but also a POSITVE male actor, he will continue on the path he has chosen to make for himself. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your answer.)
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hello Elijah, by asking this question you have shown me the first quality that you must posses to be a good actor... Be Fearless. The most important virtue to have in show Biz is persistence. You are being judged every time you audition but not getting the role does not make you a bad actor. Many times a casting agent is looking for specific type for a role and you may not fit that image or you are too tall or too young or not dark enough. There are times that you can change their mind by doing a great audition and making them rethink the role like Laurence Fishburne in the Matrix, Morpheus was not written for a black actor but now I could not imagine anyone else. When you get the chance to audition remember it is an opportunity to show case your talent and have fun and don't let the nerves get to you. I know this can be hard but I always reward myself after an audition no matter what the out come, this way I always look forward to the next one and I have got rid of the negative feelings that are usually attached to a casting call. No, I do not get every role I go for although I make sure if I get in that room I am going to make an impact so they remember me no matter if I get it or not. So always prepare as best as you can and go in doing your best but then you must let go and surrender in what is to come, this way you do not torment yourself. Elijah if you have a passion for acting never let anyone or anything tell you that you should not or could not be what you dream.
Stay with it out of two plays you landed one, this is 50% success rate already so focus on the what you have achieved and not what slipped by you. Work every day at your craft and learn as much as you can and shoot for the stars... the rest is in someone else's hand.
Question - Miss Davis Asks...
Greetings and Salutations Jay!
Believe it or not, I have finally come up with a question that I haven't asked K.R. yet! My Birthday is March 26 and heresay has it that your birthday is late March early April.
Well my question to you is this: What do you like to do on your birthday? Do you like to travel, stay home and write scripts, hang out with friends, or just do whatever you feel like doing, depending on the age of your birthday?
Next year, I'll be 35. I'm planning to leave the country. I want to do a 17 day cruise that starts in Miami and ends in Los Angeles. . .oh, it goes through the Panama Canal! I'm totally looking forward to it! If the one I want isn't available, I guess I'll take a 7 or 8 day one. I want to check out Belize too!
Hope to hear from you soon!
Holler at cha later!
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hello Miss Davis, How is it with you? I celebrate each day as if it was my birthday! For me I always start the day by praying and blessing each day for all that is ahead of me. A new day is a new beginning and I try to remind myself of that and stay in tune with the Planetary cycles depending on the time of the year. Tomorrow is the Spring Equinox which is the true beginning of the year when the day and the night are of equal length signifying the dawn of spring and rebirth. It is a time of starting new and letting go, my birthday is only a few days later. Our World is going through a turbulent phase right now and it is a time of transformation, and as we all know change is never easy. I have no immediate plan but I will celebrate it with some close friends probably. Travailing is one of my passions and a great way to feed your soul, for each nation you visit teach us something about ourselves and also how similar we really are despite the cultural variations. I wish you a safe trip.
Question - Sami Asks...
Ok, ummm....So, I'm a bit of a puppy fan. I love any and all types. My questions relate to your pup Mohawk.
How is Mohawk doin right now? When you have to go travel someplace to do work, do you bring him with you or do you have to leave him at home with a sitter? Also, a lot of the Jaybirds have been calling Mohawk "Momo" which in Japanese means "Peach". I was wondering if you minded us calling Mohawk as Momo.
If you could answer that, you definitely will be putting my mind at ease cuz I always wondered about that. Grin. I have so many other questions but I don't want to overstay my welcome. Grin. I ramble too much.
I like you like I like Whipped Creme!
Rock the Kasbah,
Samantha...aka...Sami
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Sami, how you doing? Mohawk has
several other names that I call him.
In fact we have our own little goofy
language that he likes me to babble
to him. Dogs and Wolves can understand
tones no matter what language is spoken
and MOMO is one of the names I call
him by, I think Sage had mentioned
that before, just as I used to call
Cheyenne ShyShy.
Ever since Cheyenne past on, Mohawk
has become more dependent on me. The
worse punishment for him is to be
home alone so I have no choice but
to take him where ever I go. He rather
sit in the car for hours than stay
home. I do have house sitters and
recently when I was in Santa Fe for
a week or so I had several people
take care of him and my luck we had
the worse lighting storm in history
of LA on that weekend. MoMo hates
thunder and Chris who was with me
on the Red Carpet on the Oscar night
was taking care of him and boy o boy
she did not get to bed till 5-am.
She said he was trying to dig a hole
in her bed to get under it.LOL. Now
he is normally fearless but thunder
is whole other thing for him. I feel
very sad when I have to leave him
just as a father would and worry as
I know how attached he is to me or
is it the other way round? I guess
that is about it for now...
LOL. Oh, one more thing... you Rock
the Kashba too!
Question - Christi Asks...
Hi Jay,
Earlier you said you were working on a screenplay based on a historical event. Can you say what it is, and once you write a screenplay what do you have to do to get someone to use it? Thanks for you time!
Christi.
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Christi, there are several ways to approach a Screenplay. You could write a synopsis and then see if a production company is interested which is usually not that easy, most people want to see the finished product. When you write an original script it's called a Speck Script. If it's based on a book, an event or an article it's an Adaptation. If you have written a hot script and you really believe in it, then the first thing is not to show it to anyone! LOL. Try to approach a literary agent and see if he or she is willing to represent you. You could also find an entertainment attorney and let him handle it. What ever company you send it to you must accompany your screenplay with a cover sheet from your attorney and date it. Who got it? How long they had it? So you can protect yourself. You can even ask for their coverage which could be helpfull. Now the danger is you cannot safe guard an idea, a lot of times they may steal some aspect of your screenplay if they want but you must take that risk if you want to sell it. Also before you send it out you should register it at WGA which is the writers Guild of America and for a small sum you can date the register and print it on the title sheet of your Screenplay.
It all starts with you getting passionate about a story and then writing it. There are courses you can take to improve your skills and also reading screenplays that have been made into films could really help you to understand what you are up against.
Based on what I just told you I can not tell you anything about my screenplay at least not on this Forum. I wish you all the inspiration in the world.
Question - Running Red Fox Asks...
Jay, I recently attended a "Chi for Beginners" class and truly enjoyed it (the movements and the flow of energy). Although I intend to get into it and learn more about it, I would like your point of view. My question is, Do you practice Tai Chi and if so do you incorporate it in with your Martial Arts training OR is Tai Chi already incorporated in the Martial Arts Practice as a whole?
Thank you for your input.
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Running Red Fox hope you are
well. I have studies Tai Chi and Chi
Gong which use the body's Chi by Focusing
it on one spot. The only Martial Arts
I practice from time to time now days
is to take one of the Jet's advance
classes. We use to do a class at Johnny
Cusack place in Venice and you never
knew who was going to show up. Every
one was equal once you were in class
and you had full contact rounds with
the likes of Bruce Lee's daughter
Shannon Lee or John McEnroe or any
number of World Class Kickboxers who
would assist him in this grueling
2 hour class. Just like the Tai Chi
the main purpose of the class was
to tune in with your opponents energy
and fight him as he fights you. Match
his tempo and rhythm so to speak.
This was also a good improve lesson
for me as an actor, by keeping my
senses sharp. I think any time you
learn something new is a blessing.
I wish you a joyous Happy Birthday.
Jay.
Question - SingleMom Asks...
Hello Jay,
I've been "holding back" on asking questions -- didn't want to "wear out my welcome". So, if you can't answer all of them (I'll understand).
(1) I don't know a thing about "the industry", so please tell me, is there much difference filming a movie like "Unbowed" vs. the made for TV movie "Into the West"?
(2) Thinking back on "Unbowed", is there anything you would have changed about Waka Mani's character?
(3) Last but not least, I have often
wondered if actors find the love scenes
awkward and as a professional how
do you prepare for them? Are there
"special" love scene coach's
or is it the director who calls all
of the shots
OK, I've asked enough. Thanks for
your time, patience and consideration.
Peace,
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hello SingleMom, Into the West was shot no differently than a Motion Picture that would be released on the Silver Screen. In fact there are 6 two hour films and each is directed by a different Talent. In many ways "Migration" had a bigger budget than Unbowed and the production was on much grander scale. I have worked on many large budget Hollywood A list films but it's not the size that matters, LOL, but the content and the appeal of the film.
Waka Mani to me was the last of his kind when Indian warriors walked freely and they were truly enlightened beings who understood and respected the Earth in ways that is hard to fathom with our modern day, right brain dominated thoughts. We shot Unbowed under extreme conditions and many of the scenes where one or two takes so as an actor you can always second guess yourself but it is what it is and I believe it holds it's own magic with all it's flaws.
Love scenes are never easy or comfortable. Unbowed's love scene was born in the mind of Nanci but we shot it at almost Arctic conditions and was one of the most challenging scenes I have ever shot. I know looking at it you cannot tell but we could only shoot for about a minute or so before both Tembi and I would have to stop because we could not stop shivering! I had a Love sense with Kerri Russell in Into The West and we shot that on the second day we had met. It's never easy to create intimacy when you hardly know your partner. A good director always helps but in the end it is up to the actors to create the moment and bring the magic to life. It helps if you like your partner just a bit. LOL.
I want to thank you for the awesome
gifts, I really enjoyed the picture.
Thank you for all your endless work
on my behalf. Have a wonderful Valentine's
Day.
Jay.
Question - Claire Asks...
Hi Jay,
What words of encouragement would you have for children who need "real" life heroes? You seem like the kind of person children would love-they have a sixth sense when it comes to goodness and spirit?
Thanks-C.V.
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Claire, You know that song... I believe the children are our future, teach them well and let them lead the way... That is one of my favorite songs and it really say's a lot. Kids now days grow up real fast and we can try to guide them but ultimately they must decide for themselves.
One of my favorite poets Kahlil Gibran
said it best when he wrote...
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of
life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from
you and though they are with you,
yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not
your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not
their souls, for their souls dwell
in the house of tomorrow, which you
cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but
seek not to make them like you.
In the tradition of several Indian
Tribes the elders advice the young
mothers to keep a few years between
the kids, sometimes as much as 5-6
years so the one child can get the
full attention that they deserve before
the next child is born and this way
it also eliminates the rivalry between
them. Not bad thinking for so called
Noble Savages! LOL.
If I was to give any advice I would
teach them Self Discipline which would
then empower them to achieve whatever
their young hearts desire. Self discipline
kept me away from abusing myself with
drugs and other temptations that were
available to me while I was growing
up. For me the real super Hero in
a child's life is "The Mother"
who has one of the hardest jobs in
the world a father is important too
but they are more like Robin were
the Mom is Batman!
Teach them to find their passion and
then encourge them to work everyday
to improve and to stay with it and
allow the rest to come to them.
Question - Roma Askes...
HiJay! Good Evening to your Fine
Self!
Thank you for taking your time in
spoiling your demanding JayBirds &
JayBuds. You know we just love the
'devil' out of you!! Now, now... put
the pitchfork down! Don't make me
pull out my holy water! Could get
'wet & wild" 'round here!
(Sorry, you bring out the 'arch-angel'
in me!!
OK... Question: What is the most beautiful
sight you've seen? What has been the
saddest sight? What has made your
soul smile? What has moved you to
tears? What brings you peace &
tranquility?
Love you! SHINE ON!!!
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Roma, I have been fortunate enough
to travel the World and I have witnessed
many wondrous events and sites but
I also noticed how there are many
people who have a lot less than most
of us here in American and yet they
are a lot happier and more content.
I cannot help but feel that most people
here have exchanged their dreams for
wants and once you attain them it's
the next want, yet the emptiness remains.
When I was shooting StreetFighter
in Bangkok I was on a 6-am run with
our Sensay Benny the Jet and some
of the cast when I noticed a couple
living inside a cardboard box on a
connecting bridge over a busy road
and everyday that I ran that route
they were there and yet they were
hugging each other and you could see
the love between the two, So the next
time I saw them I gave them all the
money that I was given for that week
for food. It was a sight that left
me both sad and yet inspired by the
Spirit that they showed in the face
of great odds. Yet their love kept
them happy inside a simple cardboard
box. Watching Cheyenne heal from all
the crippling diseases that she had
and her finally raising her head and
smiling at me, filled me with so much
joy that it's truly beyond words.
Any time I show compassion instead
of punishing someone for whatever
wrong they have done to me or walking
away when you know you can fight just
as easily, my soul is enriched.
I Wish you a delightful birthday and
a bright and inspiring year.
Jay.
Question - Michaelle Kelly Writes
HiJay,
Life is like an open book. Each day we add more to the story of our life. We can't skip to the end of the book because they are empty pages waiting to filled and we can't undo what is already written. However, looking back at the written pages, if possible, what would you rewrite? Or do you believe that everything happens for a reason leaving no room for regret or maybes?
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Michaelle a philosophical Question I like that. Listen up Grass Hopper! I never regret anything I have done, only the things that I never did. I believe every event that happens to us in neutral and it's the human mind that puts a positive or negative spin on it. For example Steven Hawkings who is one of the most brilliant theoretical Physicist only found his true calling after he was stuck down by the paralyzing disease that left him with nothing to do but to think! Only then he was able to see in his minds eye the fourth and fifth dimensions and beyond. So was his disability a gift or a curse? I do believe that each one of us has a destiny but I also believe that destiny will only take you half way there you have to chart the rest of the way yourself. Also it is hard to judge a book when you are half way through. Sometimes you have to allow the situation to pass before all of the lessons or the reasons are revealed. The most important thing I have learned is before I start any endeavor I will set a higher reason for doing it what I mean by that is do it for some reason more than personal gain. Then relinquish control and work hard but surrender to the unknown and welcome the challenges that are ahead. The Buddhist say it best... If you want to make God laugh tell him all your plans! Wishing you a great new year.
Question - Shuandalyn Writes...
Hiya Jay! How are you? I hope you had a great Thanksgiving if you celebrate it!
My questions are:
Since you are a screenwriter, is there
a timetable for writing screenplays?
What exactly does screenwriting entail
developing characters?
Do you have to research a topic before
writing a screenplay?
Thanks for your time Jay! Love ya! Peace!
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Shuandalyn, Nesh Ta Gol Teh(How
is it with you?)
Screen writing is an art form. When
you write a novel you have no boundaries
but a screen play must tell the story
you want to tell in about 105 pages,
that is the standard nowadays. You
can write longer plays but if you
want people to read them than the
length of your story is as important
as the content. I usually write a
synopsis of the story I want to tell.
It is only a guide or a vague out
line. I try to write at least 3-5
pages a day, if I get in the zone
than I write till my creative juices
run out. I read or watch or even travel
to the locations and consume as much
material as I can before I start and
focus my mind on the topic completely.
It is amazing when you focus on something,
suddenly everything around you make
sense in a different way and you will
find your answers everywhere. I am
better at story structure but I have
worked hard to create characters that
see the world from different view
points and you will always need conflict
to drive the scene forward. Ultimately
a good Screen writer must think like
a director and see the scenes in his
minds eye and write in the genera
that the story takes place. Funny
writing for comedy and dramatic expressions
for Drama and so on. I usually play
a song that fits the scene I have
in mind and try to write the type
of films I like to see on the silver
screen.
I wish you happiness in the new year.
Jay.
Question
- Courtney Writes...
Jay...
I don't know if you heard, but Congress is supposed talk about passing a bill to apologize to Native Americans about past wrongdoings. What do you think about this? Great? Too little, too late?
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Courtney, great question. I remember
in the 2000 Sidney Olympics the Australian
athletes wore shirts that simply read
"Sorry." They were referring
to the treatment of the Aboriginal
people of their land. I was touched
by this as I'm sure the world was.
I feel our nation has had a deep wound
on it's side for over 400 years and
each generation has put a band aid
on it and passed it on, hoping someone
else would deal with it. But before
healing can occur one must first acknowledge
the wrong done. In the 1500s there
was an estimated 20 million indigenous
people living in America's, by the
1890s there was less than 250,000
left! They did not all pack up and
go to Oklahoma. I know this sound
harsh but there has been an American
Holocaust that no one seems to acknowledge.
In fact our government was the fist
nation to use biological weapons on
it's own people. Many tribes were
wiped out without a single bullet
being fired. Diseased blankets did
a faster job. I could go on but it's
no good to point fingers at anyone
now. To acknowledge the fact that
the American Indians gave up their
way of life for the rest of us to
live the way we do now and the prosperity
that we have come to take for granted
is the first step to start the healing
that must occur for our Nation to
evolve to the next level. If you see
yourself as an American then you must
learn the Spirit and the wisdom that
the Indian elders have left us and
never before has it been more necessary
to walk the Spirit path and just see
one Nation with no colors and no divisions.
I wish all of you a happy holidays.
Enjoy the Magic the exists among your
families.
Jay.
Question - Niani Askes...
Hello Jay, I noticed in one of your responses you spoke about how hard life is on "The Rez" and I don't know if you realize this, but it sounds pretty much like life in "Da Hood"...the two are strikingly similar (diabetes, obesity, suicide, homicide, incarceration rate, substance abuse, domestic violence, etc...) Have you been involved in or would you consider being involved with efforts (not pushing one here) to open dialogue between the two communities (AI & AA) in an effort to curb/cease the continued social deterioration of our 2 groups?
Second part if I may be so bold as to steal some bandwidth...
I also noticed that you did Track & Field back in the day, I did as well...back in the day. I am still an avid fan of the sport, coaching kids as well as attending big meets when I get the chance. Have you heard of the Penn Relays? If so, did you ever run there? Also, what do you think about the current problems with America's sprinters (steroids) and their so-so performance in this year's Olympics?
PS. When will you be on the east coast??
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hello Niani, it is true, the Getto's and slums are the same all over the world. As we sit tonight eating possibly our third meal, let us not forget that over half the worlds population go hungry, 'cause there is not enough food for everyone. A dialogue between the Rez and D'hood sounds interesting but both sides need help from others and also by helping themselves. It is hard to be inspired when all around is misery and despair. I do what I can regarding going to talk with the kids as I believe through them we must keep the Dream alive, that all Dreams are attainable and never let that belief be forgotten.
The African Americans and the American Indians have much in common now and in history and a film like Unbowed highlights some of that unwritten history.
I never ran in Penn Relays but did run several middle distance Relay's competition in Europe(4x1500m). I also love to watch Track and Field, there is not enough on TV. I watched most of the Olympics in HD. Loved it. Our Athletes are truly the best trained and some of the best specimens I have ever seen. The 100m Dash Final's was the fastest in History with the 5 top finishers under 9.90! Although Maurice Green missed his mark it was an unforgettable final and the build up was dynamic.
I don't think there will ever be completely drug free games. It is the nature of human beings to push the limits and in doing so some will do whatever it takes to win. Marion Jones was as much a victim of the bad press as she was from not being in her best shape but she will be back. She is still the only women to win five medals in one Summer Olympics.
I have read they are now using a procedure called Gene Doping, where they use a virus to host whatever they want and they can injected the virus directly into the muscle. For example if you want the Quad's to twitch faster you can program the virus to carry that gene enhancer to the muscle and it's virtually undetectable!
Having said all of that for the
first time since 1988 less world records
have been broken in Track & Field
because of the stricter drug testing,
the athletes are finally catching
up to the drug enhanced performances
of that Olympics.
The future looks promising as US Athletes
dominate the world once again.
I don't know when I be back on the
East Coast but know I will be back.
I love NY.
PS. Have a great Birthday and don't
worry about my share of the cake.
JT.
Question - Fontenel Asks...
Jay you are a very fit person maybe you can help me with this. I consider my self a healthy person don't smoke nor drink (alcohol), well my eating habits can beg the differ. I try to eat healthy but sometime I eat on the run. I hit the gym, I do good to stay in shape. But I want to flatten my stomach more and shape up my arms. I do crunches all they do is hurt my back. I have brought the AB cruncher and it's collecting dust (don't waste your time) I don't want to lift heavy weights because I don't want to walk around looking like a man. Is there a program that can help a person like me. Any suggestions. Thank you in advance...Peace Fontenel..
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Fontenel, let me start by saying that in your line of work stress is on a level that most people will never know. I know I have sat in the back seat of a Police car and watched the LAPD in their daily grind. Because of the stress your body produces Sertonem(spelling)? A hormone that increases body fat.
The trick is to find your body type
and eat according to your daily activity.
You cannot spot reduce, like only
lose the fat on the stomach. The abdominal
muscles only show when the body fat
is under 8%, but there are ways to
achieve that.
Rule #1. Watch the carbs! No matter
how fit one is, if you consume more
carbs than the body can handle in
one sitting your body will bloat.
So watch the Breads, Pastas, Potatoes,
and any sugar loaded foods. You must
read the labels. You want foods that
are low in sugar and sodium and high
in protein and potassium. The Fat
is necessary in our food so don't
worry too much about the non fat diets.
We need fat for the healthy nervous
system.
Rule #2. Eat foods that are alive. What I mean by that is stay away from canned or over processed foods. Eat more vegetables and fruits, they contain water and our bodies are over 75% water so is the Earth. Water is life so drink it and eat foods that contain it.
Rule #3. Eat your largest meal earlier in the day. Even if you want a stake eat it for Break fast or lunch and never for dinner. Our bodies have three cycles: Consumption, Digestion and Secretion and as the sun sets the body clock changes our metabolism and we must stay in tune with the cycles of our Planet. Follow the old saying: Eat breakfast by yourself, Lunch with a friend and give your dinner to your enemy.
Rule #4. Stay active, more important
than pumping weights is to move our
bodies that are designed for motion.
The human body is not meant to sit
8 hours a day and stair at a monitor
but if that's what you have to do
than you still have 16 hours more
to move it.
The fitter you are the more energy
you will have.
I find running the best fat burner but if you cannot run, cycle or do a spin class or go out and dance your ass off. LOL.
Rule #4. Keep it simple. What I mean is if you want to eat chicken or fish or meat then eat it with a salad, it's better for your digestion than if you eat it with rice or potato or pasta. Now you can have them too but wait a few hours before you eat again.
Finally if you make a fist, that is the size of your upper stomach, so eat less food per sitting. This is one of the biggest problems that our nation faces. We are a nation of SUPER SIZE and it's time to eat enough for that sitting and not for the whole day.LOL.
I have had the pleasure of working
with some of the worlds best Trainers
and dietitians and what I share with
you is a guide line. It's up to you
to find what works for your body chemistry
as no two people are alike when it
come to their bodies.
Hope this will help and once again
let the rage go what you did was the
highest form of love... Compassion
and you must also have that for the
poor Mother who is so lost to do what
she did.
Stay strong, Nantl-lass.
JT.
Question - Toosie Asks:
Because you are so particular about which movie roles you'll take, I was wondering what is your motivation or reason for deciding to play the Devil in the upcoming movie The Christian?
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hi Tossie, nice to see you are still
around.LOL
I did turn down many Martial Arts
roles after I did StreetFighter. Although
it was money in the bank I felt it
would have established me as a Martial
Artist and that was not why I'm in
this business. I had to fight to get
recognized as a dramatic Actor and
to be in films along side the one
and only Meryl Streep and the amazing
Cate Blanchett. I do not like to repeat
myself in films even though that is
exactly what Hollywood does to Actors
as soon as they do one type of role
well. Like Stallone only as Rocky
or Rambo. I realize I have played
several Indian roles in a row but
they are all different from each other
and I did not feel pigeon holed.
My decision to play The Devil was first because I like the book Lost Secrets of Sacred Ark and after meeting Laurence Gardner and spending some time with him I was impressed with his esoteric knowledge.
The Devil was the most beautiful
Angel who thought he was Gods equal
and his vaninty caused God to dispell
him from Heaven. I believe sometimes
we learn more form the Dark side than
we do from the light. I see myself
as a story teller and when you tell
a story that makes people think and
even discuss their beliefs it's a
step in the right direction. It is
said that the doors to heaven and
hell are adjacent and the doors are
unmarked. One man's heaven is another's
hell.
I have not chosen to do this Film
to disrespect any one or any religion
and after it is all said and done,
it's still only a Movie and it is
there to entertain and provoke thought.
Mel Gibsons Passion of Christ was
labeled as anti Semitic but the message
of his film was about forgiving those
who persecute you.
I am journeying into the dark side of myself so don't mess with me sweet heart for the next few months. YOOOHHHAAAAAA... LOL.
Question - Skippy Asks:
G'day Jay! How are ya mate!
This first question relates to the
days of old when Crazy Horse was the
great leader, Sitting Bull was the
great chief and Geronimo was no where
to be found
{LOL} OK here's the question, when
I look at old photos of Indians I
noticed none of them had facial hair,
why is that? is because they couldn,t
grow beards and mo's or was it a cultural
thing, if they shaved what did they
use, Hey! not that I'm into hairy
faces just curious, so don't go growing
hair on your face or I'll be over
there with the wax and wax strips
OUCH! {LOL}
Here's another one, Do any Indains
tribes of today still live their tradional
tribal way of life, living in Tipees,
dressing in tradional Indian attire
ect.. Some Aboriginal tribes do live
the tribal way of life deep in the
Outback, just another curios Q.
This is most important of all
For what it's really worth,I am a
truly loyal, devoted, dedicated die-hard
fan of yours and I love you so much,
Ok I've rambled on enough, here's
some hugs and kisses from me
How's MO Mo, pat for me and give him
bone
luv ya mate
Skippy
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hello Skippy, or should I say a very
Happy Birth Day to you. You have raised
a good question. Most Indian Tribes
shaved off any hair from their bodies,
this included even the eye brows in
some of the plain tribes (Lakhota
or Pawnee) Although American Indians
as a people are not that hairy, some
people argue this as a proof of the
Migration of the Mongols across the
frozen north and into the North America.
I believe that some folks were already
here and yes people probably walk
across and the tribes may have mixed
with the indigenous people of the
Turtle Island.(USA)
But there are many tribes that did
have facial hair. In doing my research
for Cold Mountain I found most of
the Cherokee's in the 1800s wore a
thin mustache and cut their hair into
a bob and even wore turbans.
So did the Seminoles and few other
Tribes that were in the Mid to South
West areas. In some cases Warriors
wore hair extension as the belief
was the thicker and longer the hair
the more power the individual had.
In fact some of the Apache leaders
did have facial hair and to this day
the Stereotypical Indian Images that
is planted in our minds eye by the
inaccuracy that Hollywood presented
in it's films. I have many old photographs
that you may never recognize as American
Indians, but they are. As far as Tribes
living in traditional ways. The answer
is yes and no. The Rez life is harsh
and our people face great challenges,
from Unemployment to drug abuse and
homicide and even suicide as young
as 10 year olds. Most tribes have
ceremonies and events that the People
dress traditionally Like the Puberty
Dance for the coming of age of every
Apache women, signifying her transition
from a young girl into adulthood.
No, you will not see anyone walking
around in a full headdress unless
he is still drunk from the night before.LOL.
Question - WinterLibra Writes...
HiJay,
I love to read, (not reading anything right now) but i'm curious to know ....
"What book or books have you read that have inspired you"?.
See this is a easy one. Outside of the obvious questions I would like to ask. I'm behaving this time.
Thank you in advance.
Answer - Jay Writes...
Hello WinterLibra, Your name has a good vibe to it. Libra is also a fellow Fire sign and supposedly my opposite, Aries.
I have always been attracted to the Unknown. As I believe real knowledge is like pure Gold, it's real value is directly related to it's rarity. When I discovered Ouspensky and Gurdjeff and their teachings regarding fragments of the unknown teachings it really triggered a deep passion within me that has been burning ever since. The book The Fourth Way and the Tibetan Book of Living and Dying are two books that come to mind. I also have had a real pleasure of meeting some of the elders and leaders in the Native community from all tribes and if you are patient with them the wealth of knowledge some of them possess is staggering. Each day is the birth of new possibilities and every one of us must start again and face the challenges that humbled us yesterday with a fresh look and ask the questions that we have taken for granted again.
Question - DMS Asks...
What's your earliest childhood memory? I'd be interested to know.
Answer - Jay writes...
Hello DMS... I guess DMS could stand
for "Don't Mess with the Sista".
LOL.
I guess our memory works best when
an event is unusual or has a shock
value that makes an impression. We
remember pictures and not words.
I remember sitting by a shallow pool when I was about three and half and a one and half year old girl was left in my care, don't ask me how that is possible but stranger things do happen when adults are in charge. I remember she had her dippers on and as she played at the edge of the water, it flowed beneath her and she slid into the pool. She started to drown floating head down in the water. I ran as fast as I could towards the house to get her Mom but something in my young mind stopped me half way. Somehow I knew even if I could make it to the house which was not too far, still the mother had to run back and I felt she would not make it in time. I turned and ran back and jumped in. The water was up to my neck and the floor was slippery but I summoned all the power that I had and was able to put my head on her belly and push her out of the pool. I have no idea how or why I made those choices but I knew I had saved her life and I felt good about my childish bravery.
Question – India Asks …
Hi Jay,
I believe in reciprosity and through the site I feel I've learned so much about you. A little about me...I'm 32 years old and I'm a Scientist by trade (I hope to transition into teaching middle school Science by this Fall). I'm a Black Native-American Indian. My mother's side is Lenna-Lanape, Cherokee and Meherin Indian (not sure about the last one's spelling, just always heard it from grandma). I'm a Sagittarius - Fire Sign born on Nov. 22. I love Poetry, Ballet and Spirituality.
Now, my questions and comments for Jay - I saw Unbowed and it has now become one of my favorite Black Cinema pieces to hopefully add to my library one day along with 'Imitation of Life', 'Gone with the Wind' (which is my absolute favorite) and now 'Unbowed'. To me this movie broke down many barriers in a film, it was very cutting edge. The Native-American Indian/Negro love story was beautiful and for the many black/native-americans in America this showed us a possible piece of our history. This movie broke down the barrier of showing an Native-American as someone who loves and has the capacity to love and to go after the woman he loves! This was first time I saw an Indian man kiss ANY woman passionately! AND in a love scene!
What I'd like to know from you is what did you gain from this movie by bringing your spirit to it?
Did you ever know that by your doing this movie the impact it would have on people?
Who were your movie idols growing up and that may have influenced you to do your life's work?
This movie was made in 1999 and it seems to be picking up some recognition by black and white America now in 2005 (if they'd stop playing it at late hours and on obsure cable channels)which it is finally getting its due. May God continue to honor and order your footsteps.
Truly,
India ~ "Black Sky"
Answer – Jay Writes …
Hi India, hope you're well. Unbowed was much more than a movie to me. Before Unbowed I had worked in several big Hollywood features but never as an Indian, in fact I had refused to play the stereo typical roles that were being written mostly by non natives. When I read "Cleola and John" which was the original name, I knew that this was a role I needed to do and not because it was well written or the fact that I had experienced some of what Waka Mani goes through but the fact that it was an unspoken segment of American history and I knew I had to go back to my roots to find this character. I decided to go on a Vision Quest in the Grand Canyon and did as much research on Indians in boarding schools as I could but ultimately the way Nanci had positioned Unbowed as a non profit film and helping so many along the way... everyone felt this was going to be something special. I am truly sorry that it did not make it to the big screen as I believe it could have surprised some folks, but it was a difficult subject matter to sell. It's ironic that it was released in the same year that I was in some of Hollywood's most high profile films as if God wanted all my work to hit the public at the same time! Unbowed was a return to the Indian ways for me and I now know that my work in Hollywood represents an entire nation and I have a responsibility to change the way Indians are thought of ... that is why you will never see me do the stoic and emotionless warrior. I love the classic epics such as "Spartacus" or "El Cid" and I was influence by so many great actors, the intensity of Yul Brynner or Bruce Lee, the wit and elegance of Cary Grant but ultimately I do not base my work on anyone I try to create a real person by doing what the Character would do both in behavior and life style. It is one of the reasons I love my job, I get to walk a thousand paths and take something from each of my roles. Unbowed is a testimony to the hard work by so many folks and I am humbled and touched that so many of you think of this movie with so much love. I do have over 3 hours of behind the scene that I have given to Nanci and maybe one day it will be on a special edition of the film.
Question – Dazzle Asks …
Hello Jay,
As a writer, I've done all sorts of work for people- letters, memos, resumes, I even wrote a poem for a guy's girlfriend, but I've never dealt with a professional editor and/ or literary agents.
I'm approximately five weeks away from a convention where besides a lot of PM partying . There will be AM studing, seminars etc.... We will also have an option, to meet with a selected agent and /or editor to pitch our book ideas. All of whom represent well-known publishing houses .. We were told NOT to bring manuscripts, and to realize there is a time limit on all appointments, but that's it.
So what are these people expecting? I mean do you just introduce yourself and start talking?
Just the facts - what? Hit only the areas of most interest? An oral synopsis? Should you have your manuscript completed, just in case?
Could you give me some pointers?
Thanks in advance,
Dazzle.
Answer – Jay Writes …
Hello Dazzle, although no two seminars or Convention are the same there are some things you need to know when trying to pitch your ideas... Now I should remind you people will charge you as much as 250 dollars an hour for this kind of advice but here is a gift for you...
You should always be able to pitch your idea in one or two lines. This is your Tag line.
e.g. "Aliens" (The Movie)...
A team of military specialist are sent to investigate the lack of communication from one of the colonies of researchers that live on a distant planet.
We both know there is a lot more to the Movie but you should be able to narrow down your story to that amount of words.
Also when you are talking about your project always remember you want to infect the listener with your passion. What is it about the story that moves you, forces you to think, brings you to tears or laughter.
Make them a believer by knowing everything about your subject matter so do your homework!
Don't be nervous, I know this is not easy but just relax and if you have done your homework then you should be having fun talking about your passion.
The rest is really about your presentation, eye contact and self confidence always make good impression.
I always think if I walk away from any experience only with one lesson learned I am grateful for it. So go and learn even if you feel uncomfortable, don't be shy, introduce yourself and ask who they are and then tell them about your story.
I hope this will help and although I may be late I usually just read a question that appeals to me on that day and I answer it so it's not personal just how I work.
Go enjoy and be productive.
Question – LeeLee Asks …
Hi Jay,
I am having a hard time with being so far from the rez. I don't have anyone to speak the language with me unless I am on the net. I can pray to Wakan Tanka anywhere but often miss others that understand and share the traditional ways. Some people don't even know that reservations still exist. I run into alot of ignorance. Some of it is lack of knowledge where some of it is just prejudice. I find myself having to bite my tongue so often because I am in an area where I am the minority. My dealings have often left me feeling mad, sad and frustrated. I am VERY proud of my heritage and continue to carry on tradition with my daughter. I want to be able guide her down the red road but anger sometimes takes me off.
My question to you is how do you deal with these type of situations? What is your remedy for this evil?
I thank you for taking the time to reply. I know you must be a busy guy.
Wopila Tanka (Big Thanks)
Lee Lee
Answer – Jay Writes …
Washta leelee, or as we say in Apache land Nesh Ta Gol Teh, how is it with you? My sister when I read your letter I felt your frustration but let me tell you whenever you are away from your Tribe you are an ambassador. It's your job to educated and enlighten whoever you come across with. There is no better weapon to defend yourself against prejudice than Knowledge. Take the ancient knowledge of the Lakhotas and let it be a guiding light in your life which then will shine the path ahead for your daughter. Any time we feel anger, hate , frustrations that make us mad, you should look at such times as an opportunity to grow. The feelings you feel is our own weaknesses and by just changing your perspective you will see there is no need to get mad you have a job to do as every one of us have. I have been there and I tell you I read and learned and spoke to elders and took that knowledge and when I was confronted by ignorance and prejudice I smiled as I knew here was my opportunity to change another human being for the better by sharing all that I have learned. The next time folks ask you about your Tribe let them know that the Lakhotas where the Seven council fires and their name meant allies as they stood together no matter what. When I started to rescue dogs and Wolves I quickly learned they respond to audio tones and if I showed anger or frustration in my voice they would feel my emotions and since I was trying to rehabilitate them from their nightmares that they had endured in the shelter or before they got there. I had to control myself and you should remember that you have your daughter and every time you get mad in front of her or bring that emotion home to her she will be effected by it. So let it go and look at life on the red path and all it's challenges as an opportunity to grow and learn and teach and find the joy in it... cause that is the path to a meaningful life my friend.
I pray for both of you and Know in your heart that Wakan Tanka is with you at every step.
Question – Toosie Asks …
Hello JAY! I pray all is well with you.
My question: Every once in awhile I let my mind drift to this one question: Where was I or what was I before I was born? I believe in scripture but I can't quite wrap my brain about this one question.
Any thoughts?
Answer – Jay Writes …
Dear Toosie, your question is one of the oldest in the books and there are many philosophies about it. We now know that every cell in our body used to be something else. The blood in your veins was once sea water ... it evaporated and became rain and washed across the land down the hills, into rivers and back to the sea. If you go even smaller, every atom in your body was once a star! We have a physical body and a Spiritual body and I believe the Spirit is pure energy and it cannot die so when the physical shell pass away that energy moves on. If you could tap into the information that is in your DNA, you probably would have memory of many events that your ancestors experienced ... that is why I say we are all connected.
I also believe Life is an opportunity to prepare your soul. The soul must go through the physicality of life with all it's hardship, pain and strives, till it's ready for it's next journey. Just as a chunk of coal is the most common element on the planet but if you bury it and give it enough time and pressure it will eventually become a diamond...! One of the rarest things in the world. In the same way our soul needs to go through hardship which is the pressure in life till it crystallizes into a diamond.
I feel your loss and I know it's not easy but think of what you had rather than what you have lost. This is a time of reflection and you are probably num, but feel free to grieve and let time heal you and transform you for your next stage.
I like to leave you with this...
Don't Stand at my Grave and weep, For I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow...
I am the Diamond's Glint on the snow...
I am the Gentle Autumn's Rain...
Don't Stand by my grave and cry, I am not There,
I Did not Die...
With all my heart Jay.
Question – Jen Asks …
Do you think it's possible for an animal you've never met to communicate to you through dreams?
The reason I am asking you this question: I LOVE horses and I am saving my money to buy my first horse in a few years. There have been a couple of times when I have been looking on the internet from breeders I'm consider buying from-but I don't ever see a horse that makes me breathless. I've had a couple of dreams about horses and the last one I had was very vivid. I'm not going to tell you the dream, but I heard the words: "You'll know me when you see me." That is why I am asking the question above, because it kind of freaked me out.
Thank You,
Jen
Answer – Jay Writes …
Hi Jen in your question lies one of the most intriguing secrets of our unierse!? The question of Chance vs. Destiny, is it coincidence or was it meant to be. Interesting enough the word coincidence comes form the mathematical word for coexisting angles which are angles that were meant to meet, perfectly matched. So coincidence really means it was meant to be not by chance which is what it has become to mean?! I can only tell you that in dreams we are in touch with areas of the subconscious that normally lay dormant. Many times a dream may not have a literal interpretation but there are times you know exactly what it means. I had already a name for Mohawk before I rescued him and I visualized what he was going to look like. When I got him out of the shelter he did not look like my dream dog but he became the one. Yes, I believe you can get messages in your dreams but it is more important to stay open to the signs around you and you will know your answers cause they will be revealed to you. Just stay open and surrender to the law of uncertainty, stop the fears and worries and visualize what you want and pray for it, it will come to you, don't chase it, just believe....if you do this you will have found one of the most underrated principles of our Universe. Jen I know that lucky horse is dreaming of you just as you are dreaming of her. I hope you find each other soon.
Keep your dream alive...
Jay.
Question – Alison Asks …
Your biography is fairly vague. That's not meant as a slight against Sage in any way but I'm curious about something that's not mentioned there or anywhere else (as far as I know). I know that you do a lot of good for different organizations and you're, without a doubt, a good person but given all this, why choose acting as a vocation? It seems that much of your time spent on screen would be better spent continuing your work helping others and improving this world in some way. Why choose a career that is, shall we say, in many ways extremely superficial and even a little trivial. Given all that you do in your spare time, why not choose to be a doctor or something along those lines? Just so you know, I love you enough that I spent several long weeks trying to come up with a question that no one else has asked. Now I need a Mudslide. Excuse me while I get the blender. Oh, I'm sorry, can I get you anything? Ladies? Anything for you?
Answer – Jay Writes …
Hello Alison, It's funny you should say that, my adopted parents wanted me to be a Doctor too and I studied to be one for a while but the first time I visited a hospital with a Dr. for a walk around and saw the sick folks with pain and sadness on their faces I knew I did not want to be one and help them by pushing pills or cutting into their bodies. I do not agree with you that Acting is extremely superficial and even a little trivial job! Actors have been around as long as history has been written and it is a noble job and an important one! I believe you can touch so many people and even change them for the better by a performance that no amount of modern medicine could. When American Indian children see Kayitha in "The Missing" what kind of impact do you think it will have on their young minds? To give hope and make a nation proud, to inspire and change old stereotypes how can that be trivial? I do not want to be a role model but I will always do a role that will show case the best of the human race no matter what race I am representing. I love my Job, it is my passion, I am not an actor because I want to be famous or rich, I do it because it feeds my soul just as helping the folks who have less than I. I do not want to be mother Teresa but I do what I can along the way. Life is an opportunity to learn and to give back as you learn. I have walked many paths in my life and have traveled to many nations and always represented my people with dignity and honor. I believe I can do a lot more good by making it in Hollywood and shattering the old views then by sitting in an office pushing pills. I am a story teller and instead of gathering around the fire to hear me now you will sit in a dark room and watch me but the job is the same. Time will tell if I was right.
Question – Sage Asks …
My Question for Jay is:
WHICH ROLE YOU'VE PLAYED IS YOUR FAVORITE TO DATE?
IS IT MATTHEW OSCEOLA, or SWIMMER or KAYITAH or VEGA or one of your new upcoming roles?
~ Sage
Answer – Jay Writes …
I try to do parts that as soon as I read the script something in my soul is moved by it. I have enjoyed each and every one of the character I have portrayed but Kayitah was very rewarding for the chance to play an Apache as they were in their full glory. A dream part in a wounderful film. And working with Elbys who was the Great Grand Daughter of Cochise and the Location New Mexico and Santa Fe only added to the Magic. Having Ron Howard as your boss and Cate and Tommy as co-workers was not bad either. And finally the Native cast was amazing including Eric's performance and Simon Bakers who played my son both brilliant actors.
JT
Question – Rowena Asks …
My question for Jay is:
How do your prepare yourself for the character you play? Are you a method actor where you stay in that character 24 hours a day and live in that character's personality? Or are you able to step into that character's shoes but at the end of the day let the character go?
Thanks!
Answer – Jay Writes …
I approach each role by as much research as possible to me getting ready for a part is a tremendous opportunity to learn and to live another life. The process fuels my passion. But once I have a back story and I usually do this for the larger parts. I create who this person was, his home his family the behavior that got him to were he is in the film. But once the shooting begins I have fun with it and let the organic process of film making guide me. No, I do not stay in character all day although in a highly emotional scene I will stay with that emotion longer.
JT
Question – Toosie Asks …
1. Jay, after your vision quest, were you given an Indian name? If so, what is it?
2. Jay, have you participated in the Sun Dance? Is the Sun Dance only practiced within the Sioux Nation or do other tribes participate in it?
3. Jay, I am pleased to hear that you will be on a panel to preserve Indian dialects. Is there going to be anyway for those of us who may be interested in learning one of those languages to be able to take a course?
4. Jay, you have a most unique voice, I was just wondering what dialect that is?
5. Jay, how do you stay “so centered” in a business that is all about “me?”
6. Jay, do you hold to any one faith? If so, what is it?
7. Jay do you know why so many Native Americans continue to live on the Rez with poverty being so low and jobs so scarce.
8. Jay, do you know if the Treaties that were set a long time ago are still being honored today? (I am from Michigan and we have a variety of treaties within the state, whether it is property rights or education. At the University of Michigan, if you are at least 25% Native American and have registered as such, you are supposed to receive free tuition. A few years ago, my friend thought she was going to use that opportunity, but was denied. She tried to force the issue and was told that that treaty no longer guarantees a free education.)
9.Jay, how many Native American tribes are there today and how many are now extinct?
Answer – Jay Writes …
Hi Tossie,You normally do not speak of your Indian name unless in ceremonies but I will say my Apache name means:
"He Who Remembers The Past"
Yes, the Sun Dance is a Plains Indian tradition mostly the Lakota's and the Cheyenne's and a few other northern tribes would participate in it, it is still done once a year in the summer.
My voice is my own as I have lived in so many places and I consider myself a Citizen of the Earth.
I respect all religions as they are different chapters of the same book. All enlightened beings come to similar conclusion and it is usually found in solitude where you find both God and self.
Jay Tavare
Question – Skippy Asks …
Hi Jay,
How many Indian languages do you speak and which ones are they?
I hear you can ride the a** of a horse, have you been riding for a long time, did you take lessons, do you ride bareback? If ever you get to the land Down Under
maybe you can teach me{lol}
Answer – Jay Writes …
I am a good mimic and can learn things very quickly and make it look like I have done so all my life and I have Spoken a few different Indian dialects in my films, I think they are mentioned on the web somewhere. I am not fluent in any of them although I'm continuing to work on my Athobascan which is the language family of the Apache's and Navajo's. Inde and Dineh.
I have been riding since I was in single digit years and yes I can bare back and did learn a few new tricks on the set of The Missing as we had several of the best riders I have ever seen. Rod, Judson and Dutch to name a few. Great guys with crazy skills.
BTW I loved Australia and would love to go back to make another film there. Who knows one day I'll be back.
JT
Question – Lani Asks …
Hi Jay
i'd like to answer 2 good question's!
what's it like to be a proud Native american actor & person too ,
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what made you interested in the role of Street-fighter Vega ????
from Lani,
Answer – Jay Writes …
Hi Lani I see myself as a human being first and just like everyone else my heritage is part of who I am but to be proud without substance can be dangerous so I keep my feet firmly on the Earth and shoot for the stars.
VEGA Was the coolest of the StreetFighter Characters and as soon as I read the script I could see him in my head a flamboyant fighter that puts on the show it's not just to defeat your opponent but to teach them a lesson too. He was fast like a mongoose making the Cobra pay with each strike, and I had to fight for the way I looked in the film because the Director had different Ideas for VEGA.
Jay Tavare
Question – Samantha Inoue Harte Asks …
Hmmmm....I have a few questions. I hope that they get answered.
1) how does it make you feel to know that hundreds of men and women adore you enough to regularly post on this forum about your looks, contemplate your age, and religiously watch your films? You have to know that you are very handsome...but have you ever wished that you could just be an average man and not be adored because of your "star" title, for your money, or for your good looks? Has it been hard to find someone who would like you for who you are and not for all the above?
2) Could you tell us if you are feeling better ever since Cheyenne passed, if you are getting along well. Is Mohawk doing alright? Was he phased at all? Would you ever consider ever getting another puppy in the future or would it be too soon. And how did you come to own Mohawk? And what attracted you to specifically Wolfdogs and Sammies (I like that nickname)
3) If you could give advice to a person who is currently pursuing an acting career who is also of mixed race (I'm Eurasian and of indiginous japanese Ainu descent), what would your best advice be?
4) The previous message that you had posted concerning Cheyenne gave off a sense of buddhist spirituality. There are many branches of Buddhism and if you were, which branch are you? If not, could you go into detail about your personal beliefs about life?
There are so many more questions that I would want to ask...but some of those may be inappropriate. so of course, i'll be a good girl and not bombard you with more. grin. but if any one of these questions could be answered I would do another flip of joy. grin. I'd probably do cartwheels all up and down the road if you did.
Answer – Jay Writes …
Ever since I won the World Dance Championship I have been on a stage with eyes watching me. At first the fame seemed OH.. so seductive but as I have grown as a man and as a Human being I have come to except who I am and forget about the fame and money, instead to follow my heart and always do the best that I can and then surrender to what is to come. I feed off the energy of my audience but I do not feed that energy to my ego rather I direct it to being more creative and giving back to the hungry eyes that watch me. I was born with a gift as each and every one of you are too. The trick is to find what it is that you are good at and then find a way to make a life style of it and even better make money from it and help others along the way. It all starts with finding your passion, follow that and the rest will come.
I do not see myself as a STAR. I'm a thespian and a story teller and through my work I hope to inspire, educate and entertain, if I can achieve that in a film or a book or a screenplay I have done my job.
The passing of Cheyenne has been hard on both Mohawk an I but we must go on as the grief is the body's way of healing you from the inside. Now I feel stronger and ready to make all of you my darling fans proud of me.
BTW thank you for your animation of Cheyenne you are a bright and talented young lady and do not be afraid to leave the nest as even the mother Eagle pushes the young Eagles out of the nest she knows it is for the good of them that they must fly.
Sammies are a very special dogs they were the dogs of the Mongolians and the bond with the tribal people has left certain personality traits that are unique to them. Also the Wolf one of the most misunderstood creatures of the Mother Earth is not unlike the Indians who got wiped out.
Jay Tavare
Question – Rose Asks …
My questions for Jay are:
From your first role as Vega in the Streetfighter movie to your current projects, what convinced you to take each of your roles, and can you explain in detail the training/research you took for each role?
Would you ever again do any projects for the younger (and young at heart!) generations?
If one of your fans wanted to learn Native traditions (tribal healing dances, making Dreamcatchers et cetera), would you 'tutor' them and/or would you refer them to your tribes?
Can you submit some sound clips from some of your projects to this site? Including your upcoming ones, of course!
How do you feel about us fans worshipping you *this* much?
We can't wait to hear from you, Jay!
Answer – Jay Writes …
Hi Rose if I was to answer your question it will be a book so I will talk about Street Fighter since I know you are a huge fan.
VEGA was a great opportunity for me to show case my physical skills. I learned from the British Actors when you have the characters walk you have the character so VEGA was a fun and colorful character. I trained very hard for this film as I knew I was supposed to be the Greatest Cage fighter since Iron fist who was Wes Studi's character who was my boss. When I met Benny the Jet who is a legend in the Martial Arts World we quickly bonded and he allowed me to use my dance and Acrobatic skills to create a style for VEGA and believe me fighting with a steel claw and a mask that was hard to breath in was not easy. I also enjoyed shooting in Thailand and Australia and Canada very much. I would do a picture for the younger generation as I don't see myself as old. The best way to learn Indian Art is to just do it, as all Indian art or any art for that fact is an expression of the Spirit and it is already in you.
I am privilege to have so much love from my fans and without the fans being a performing Artist has no meaning.
JT
Question – Elizabeth Lampert Asks …
Native artwork and culture is such an interesting subject.
Did the Apache people ever make pottery or create any kind of specialized jewelry?
And did the Navajo ever grow corn?
Answer – Jay Writes …
Hi Elizabeth, the answer is not really, The Apaches did some form of art but it was the Dineh Nation who learned from the Zuni's the wonderful silver work and carpet and basket weaving. The Navajo's did grow corn, they were sheep hearders as well and more peacfull than the Apache's who roamed and raided more often. BTW Dineh is the correct name for the Navajo's as most Indina tribes have a different name for themselves. Usually translated to mean The People. The Apache's were called Inde.
JT
Question – Kllyyng Asks …
I am new to this forum, but i would like to know what is Jay's favorite music to listen to and what is his favorite novel. This might be a simplistic question but a person can learn a lot from the music someone listen to and the books they read.
P.S. If there anyone on the forum from Arizona could you give me a holla about the city and the people because i'm relocating to Phoenix from Texas.
Answer – Jay Writes …
I use music in every aspect of my work. Sometimes a single note can bring me to were I need to be in a scene. There are Three aspects to music Rhythm, Melody and Harmony and each has a different impact on us. Rhythm moves us physically where Melody moves us emotionally and Harmony has a Spiritual effect on us.
I listen to all sort of music it all depends what I am trying to achieve. I also listen to a lot of sound tracks and often write my screenplays listing to them.
Hip hop and soul music to dance to.
I have a library at home and I collect many books on esoteric subjects. I have an extensive American Indian tribal books some very rare that I use in my work but the last thing I read was a book by Laurance Gardner who I have met and it is called the Lost Secrets of the Sacred Ark and I may be doing the film version soon.
Jay Tavare
Question – Alison McDaniel Asks …
If one were to look into your soul, what would they see?
Answer – Jay Writes …
Enigma?
Question – Alison McDaniels Asks …
Lol!!! Good answer. Very intriguing. Motivating, as well.
Here's another one for you: What keeps you up at night? This is NOT a dirty question, either. Unless you want it to be. Lol!!! Oops, there I go offending your "delicate sensibilities" again. Ha ha ha. We have entirely too much fun here.
Answer – Jay Writes …
Great Company, good music, good wine and good..., Good God what am I doing... LOL .
I know you have had a tough time recently but stay strong tough times don't last tough people do.
JT
Question – Roma Asks …
Wow! I am in AWE, because everything I knew was in Jay, is here. As I've said, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." I behold...He is Beautiful!
Sorry for my absence & I have missed so much!!! But Jay & these awesome fans are always showered w/love & well wishes wherever I may be & being here is like Great Company! Most unfortunate for me to have missed so much... but it suffices to say: Jay-bathing (or "basking") in his tending to fellow-fans' questions is enough to bring me happiness & joy. But... I look forward to the live question & interacting... hope I'm here...
I'd want to ASK JAY: Your vision-quest is mentioned... Were you trying to find your way back to your purpose for the benefit of your roots or was it to find "home"? This is a question I asked when we were dream-dating Jay (lol). Did I win? (jk)
OR ASK: Jay, Kayitah was a medicine man capable of healing & in a dream you healed my aching back (Thanks!), if YOU could heal an undesirable disease found in mankind, what would it be?
OR, JAY: You said in your 1st "Hello" to us that..."the destination is no longer as important as the Journey that gets you there." What has been your most profound & moving (pivotal) experience thus far? Tho' Cheyenne may have much to do w/that... We will always & forever love you Jay!!! I, for one, will always send my Spirit to help lift you to your destiny... "He's not heavy, He's my brother..."
Love you Jay!!! -Roma
Answer – Jay Writes …
Hi Roma, You are late but better late than never... And you have been a regular so I will answer your Q...
In every journey the traveler will lose his or her path more than once it is in such times that one must become quite and look inwards and if you listen carefully the melody of your heart will remind you of your song and you will remember the words and find your way again. I was raised away from my culture but nothing has ever made more sense to me than the way an Indian looks and respects life.
Man is a mysterious creature but to change one must first acknowledge one's true nature. I would change the fact that it is easier for us to hate than to love... It is easier to punish than to forgive. I would love for people to show more of the higher emotions... True love which is compassion, Self sacrifice... Tolerance..
In the wild when the wild Bison meets the Tiger they sometimes walk away from each other
It's not out of fear, it is... The Love of Life. So they can both live another day.
The Lakota's used to say today is a good day to die as they went into battle...
The Apache's say today is a good day to live, catch me if you can...
Past Q&A's With Jay
